VADAMASK
The Relationship we all deserve.
I don't exactly know how and why this thing happened, but it gave me so much happiness and pure love.
We met each other being unsustainable and crazy teenagers, with problems about homework and a desire to win the world. Some of them I have known for several years, some of them for months and some for days. We were from different schools and universities, from totally different social circles and each of us a had crazy life background and life experience which we were going to introduce to each other.
That is how I met my best friends. It took a while for all of us to knew each other but here we are: VADAMASK - capital letter from each of us. Being in a friendship relationship is for sure not easier than in a love relationship. Both are required a lot of love and attention, respect and care. Maybe you know this magic, when in a short period of time, without even knowing each other well, people become so close as they could not imagine. For each of us it was a test for strength and faith: we fight and hate, we love and hug.
My friend K did not believe in any kind of friendship because of bad experience. Now, after almost two years, I am so happy to hear kind words about us being special for him.
My friend A was a bird and very close, but now I realize she is the smartest and the most intelligent person in the world. She is so simple and thoughtful at the same time. Speaking about philosophy and the purpose of life while watching old French movies is my own kind of happiness.
My friend V, who is also my ex-boyfriend, was stubborn and alarmist. Well, it is very difficult to be in a good relationship after the break up, but we have best friends in common and it would be very unfair for them to separate all the time between us. I haven't speak with V for a long time, but I know he is making great achievements in his formal and informal education.
My friend S was a total stranger to me in the beginning, even a bit suspicious. Now I can tell her whatever and whenever. I can say "Hey. I am coming with an ice-cream, be ready" and she will. She is not complicated and very open, very funny and ironic, crazy and so loved by me.
My friend D is very hard-working person and I see her not so often but still I know she is always around to help.
My friends A and M were the closest ones for me in the beginning. I know M since the third grade, but unfortunately they put love relationship as the priority.
We finished high-school together, went to University, quit the University, changed the countries and our lovers, but one thing will never change in our human rountine - the love we have for each other. We are so different and so crazy and that's the reason the totally fulfill each other. We love singing Riptide, trains and undergrounds, policemen and cherry cider, big jars of beer and cheesy bread. We love both raves and old russian pop. We love Ukranian tv-shows and crosswords (and we are not even 20).
I am writing this article from abroad. V and S also moved thousand/s km away to follow their own path in life. I know, we will be even further away from each other in the next year, but distance means so little, when someone means so much. We went through many troubles and police stations, through so many trains and kilometers apart. I know them so well and love them so much. I am lucky to have them all in my life. Even if we break up one day I will tell to my children about the best friendship I ever had in my life.
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